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my fella gets right up my nose

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samandkat · 11/11/2014 23:51

My man has just shouted at me for washing his trousers with his wallet in it but if he didn't just throw his cloths ad stuff in every direction and put things in proper place

My man is one who works normal hours in a normal job comes home does nothing and creates a mess then wonders upstairs to bed

I have a six month old baby and a three year old who has ADHD and autism I don't work but I do try washing pots while feeding a baby hoovering up and peeling ds off the ceiling all at the same time but if one thing goes wrong like today its all my fault

Its driving me mad I don't know how to handle this situation

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PacificDogwood · 15/11/2014 21:45

Hand him the baby (if he's not sleeping yet) and go for a bath.
Alone.
With the door locked.
Take as long as you like.

You need to decide what you want the rest of your life to look like and what kind of relationship you want to model for your DC.

The issue is not that you washed his wallet, it's how the 2 of you, as 2 adults in an equal relationship, right?, deal with this.
Are you two able to speak to each other about controversial stuff without getting cross?