is this a good start?

[superstarheartbreaker]

Ive met this guy who is not my usual type but hes so lovely and charismatic that I want to ho on a second date. My first thought is that I dont really fancy him but there is something there.
I think hes a bit insecure about his looks as he has asked me if I find him physical lu atteactive. The truth is hes not my usual fuckwit type but I like him a lot as s person. Im hoping the attraction will grow.

No, this isn't a good start, imo.

He's far too intense. You've had ONE date and already he's getting needy and obsessive about whether you find him attractive? You say he's charismatic - he doesn't sound it!

If you're already hoping that he'll 'reign in' aspects of his personality - on the second date! - then this is a no-hoper.