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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Kicking The Wicked Wine Witch Where It Hurts! Mwahahahahahahaha!

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Mouseface · 14/10/2014 11:20

Hey, I'm Mouse, welcome to the Bus (aka Gerald!) Grin

We're a mixed bunch of folk, some have been here for a while, and of course we have some new additions too. It matters not one jot how long you travel with us, as long as you get something from it.

No matter your story, your needs, your fears and hopes, you CAN come on here and talk. You can cry, scream, rant, let it all out and not be judged for anything. Ever.

We've all been so very low, some have hit the very bottom of the rock, rubbed the bruising better and picked ourselves back up again but sometimes, you need a helping hand or someone to listen too.....which is why we're here, sharing our experiences, or just reading each other's and nodding as we click along.....

The support here is unconditional. :)

There are two banners down each side of Gerald, our super duper Bus saying -

    • The Vulnerable Need Our Support, Not Our Judgement
    • Alcohol Fosters Inertia

We have lots of food on board, but mainly Opal fruits!!! They tend to be anything other than green, as they get snapped up vair fast indeed!

If you would like to know a bit more about how we got to where we are today, you can read these threads.

THE PREVIOUS THREAD

THE START OF THE JOURNEY

Hope to see you soon :) x

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70hours · 03/11/2014 21:05

Whoop whoop Phrase :). - so happy for you x
Step. Good luck to your mum- you sound like a lovely daughter.
Ma - go to bed - works with me everytime??
looking wry beaches hoping for a whoosh with my weight too
Night all xxxxx loves ya all x

aliasjoey · 03/11/2014 21:14

wry just found out someone I know is in your hospital getting a hip replacement... Weird coincidence - 7 degrees of ummm something ummm

beachestoexplore · 03/11/2014 21:56

Great news on baby Geraldine Phrase SmileThanks

Ma hope you found a table leg to chew or something.

Step hoping all goes well for your mum tomorrow. Flowers for you.

hope thanks for the dream catcher, I think I will sleep like a log tonight Smile.

Night joey, 70, venus and all other babes xx

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 03/11/2014 23:09

phrase!!!!!!!!!!!! oh I am that chuffed, delighted for you ma quine, absolutely delighted for you! Geraldine the Gymnast, gotta ring for future Olympic Games, ain't it? Grin I smell a very proud bus trip a'comin! xx

ma corker of a poem. Corker. Says it all. Thanks I am enjoying single life very much! I weed my wardrobe in times of need. A keep pile, a maybe I'll fit it again sometime never/mend pile, and a chuck pile. And then I pick up a bin bag and lose faith in my judgement and the whole sorry lot gets put back in the wardrobe and then I'm annoyed because it's now creased and then I have to iron it and so the circle goes... or a face mask. I like a face mask. Or a hair mask. Or my steam thing. Everything gets steamed. Including the dog bed, toys, blankets. Or watch Gotham, tis very good. Grin if a bit gruesome! xx

inde loved your poem, especially the last two lines. Thanks xx

beaches wishing you the sweetest of dreams tonight, I'm hiding the cheese. Have some of me cocoa, it's got a chocolate stirry stick, marshmallows and a couple of grated maltesers in it. Like a fat Horlicks. Sending Little to snore you to sleep, not quite the Amazonian rainforest but surprisingly soothing xx

looking how are you today, lovely? I hope you're swishing your - let's face it - fabulously fuck it age inappropriate swishy hair right in the face of the naysayers in your life, and poop-pooping Mr Toad-like down life's highway. Will tack on another picture of Little in a minute so you can see her eyes. How's work going? xx

Hey Eccles, what a lovely thing for you (and your mam) that you went to visit. Truly, that will be a day you will look back on again and again, you soothed her when she needed you, and that will be a lovely positive for her to take to surgery. That you cared. That you loved her. Knowing that you're loved gives you strength, and in recovery that is all important. Yup, the doctors take care of the mechanics, but what you did? Well, that is what makes the difference. You do what you need to honey to get through this, and if you need a wee place to lay your head, there is a duvet with cashmere covered hot water bottles on the back seat. I reckon you'll be joining beaches there for a much needed snooze, xx

venus was greetin at your "how Geraldine got her name" post Grin Grin and her bevy of honorary aunties! Grin How's the paper mountain doing? Are you at the summit or are you sat toasting your tootsies at basecamp? xx

joey How are ye quine? Aye, tis a tiny world, abody kens abody! Grin When I broke my leg I ended up on that ward myself. Initially I was on a six bed ward, and the banter was fab, aided our recoveries no end. I met some lovely folk on that ward, still keep in touch with one or two. Due to emergency admissions I waited a few days for my repair, but the lovely ladies kept my spirits high. And the repair was as fine a bit of work as I've seen anywhere. I still admire my x-rays I hope your friend has as positive an experience. I am not the world's greatest patient, the lack of fresh air and permashut windaes drove me scranny. But, as my granny was fond of saying, there's aye someone worse aff than yersel... I can vouch for the soup. The soup is a proper stick to your ribs hearty bowl of loveliness. But they would get better marks if they served tiger bread with it. Grin xx

Wishing everyone sweet, peaceful and restful dreams, special bellybosies to baby Geraldine, xx

The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Kicking The Wicked Wine Witch Where It Hurts! Mwahahahahahahaha!
PhraseAndFable · 04/11/2014 06:45

Proper made me laugh venus . . . Grin

That pic of Little is adorable wry! That little white chest patch is just made for rubbing.

Thanks so much for the good wishes everyone. Smile It's really lovely to have a busful of honorary Geraldine-aunties. I've no idea if she is a she by the way, but I have a feeling it's a girl so I'm going with that.

I had my NHS-compliant 120ml of fizz last night - it tasted fab, then I felt quite sleepy! Probably the kilo or so of risotto I'd just wolfed down . . . I'd no urge to drink any more, nor to repeat the experience today. So I'm not worrying Smile

I've been up since about 4. My brain won't shut up: 'We're having a baby. I hope the Down's test is OK. How will I deal with my mum? We're having a baby. I hope the Down's test is OK. How will I deal with my mum? We're having a baby.' aaaaaaaaaargh

a nap later, I think.

aliasjoey · 04/11/2014 10:09

Anyone about?

beachestoexplore · 04/11/2014 12:08

Hi joey, you still there?

aliasjoey · 04/11/2014 12:20

Hello beaches are you okay?

Sorry I was just doing my usual panic - and it seems like my first port-of-call nowadays is the Bus! I think of you all as real friends...

Crisis is over anyway.

Did you sleep any better?

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 04/11/2014 12:37

Hey joey you okay ma quine? Did you have a wee wobble? Xx

MaryMungoAndMidgies · 04/11/2014 12:40

Hi there beaches did you manage a sleep? Short and sweet messages, at work and it keeps wiping ma messages, xx

beachestoexplore · 04/11/2014 12:47

Glad the crisis was averted joey, hate it when a panic takes hold it can be really difficult to shake it off. I think of the bus as proper friends too. Yes thanks babes, I did sleep better, lots of dreams but not menacing ones. Hope work is ok today Wry Smile

aliasjoey · 04/11/2014 14:52

wry I was thinking that the person I mentioned having a hip replacement probably wouldn't know who I was. I must have met him only a couple of times years ago.

Then I thought, I bet all he remembers is of one of those Scottish weddings: that quine who drank 3 glasses of champagne before we'd even done the speeches; who tried to photobomb the bride & groom and then threw up in somebodys sporran... [shudders] Blush Sad

dementedma · 04/11/2014 20:01

Hey all. Well, didn't make day 2. sigh
Bit of a shitty day. Nothing drastic. Just too many people needing me and the person I need not available. Sad

aliasjoey · 04/11/2014 20:19

Aww ma hugs. Anything we can do? I've discovered some very funny twitter accounts if you need a laugh

lookingforhope · 04/11/2014 20:19

I didn't either Ma Blush. Having a bad week. Photo of Little cheered me up though Wry xxx

beachestoexplore · 04/11/2014 20:32

If you are going for reduction this month then you have got 1 in the bag already Ma still right on course Flowers

You too hope, sorry you are having a shit week. If I could magic good things to anyone, it would be you. Hang in there flower xx

guggs how are things with you? You popped into my thoughts today Smile

joey the wedding!!!! I couldn't help but grin at that. I once collapsed into a flowerbed as the bride and groom were saying their goodbyes. Managed to avoid EVER seeing the video Blush

dementedma · 04/11/2014 20:54

Thanks guys.
Will try for another AF tomoz.
Just struggling to cope with dad and various family issues all at once

70hours · 04/11/2014 20:57

Sorry to here about some babes struggling :(. - keep with it - tomorrow's a new day.

I feel strange 23 days AF - I feel down and fed up - no boing - no elation - just flat - still worried over health and damage I have done - just feel gah and gah and gah -
Sorry for moan - could just cry about it all

dementedma · 04/11/2014 21:47

Hang in there 70
I'm sure it will get better

70hours · 04/11/2014 21:51

Thanks ma I hope so. the thought of being AF forever isn't appealing - yet I know it should be - I don't want to drink like I did - but I don't want to never drink again -:(. Meant to be going for some blood tests soon but so worried that LFT will show abnormalities am thinking if deferring for another week - to give liver longer to heal.
Just feel so fed up - alcohol was my treat - now it has been taken away am unsure what else to treat myself with.

How come some people seem all boingy when they give up - when will that happen to me ?

beachestoexplore · 04/11/2014 21:52

Oh 70, perhaps it is that pesky full moon or something, it often makes me emotional. 23 days is absolutely bloody brilliant. Whatever damage may or may not have been done is hard or even impossible to know but by not drinking you are at least giving you liver a chance to rest and repair. Try and ride out this wobbly bit, like you say tomorrow is a new day. Flowers

dementedma · 04/11/2014 21:54

I understand. I was AF last night. Just one lousy night and was resentful and angry. Felt better this morning not to have a hangover I must admit, but didn't feel the love during the AF evening!

70hours · 04/11/2014 21:55

Thanks ladies x

venusandmars · 04/11/2014 23:58

So, it's almost Wednesday. A new start for some, and a continuation for others. You know what - it doesn't matter which group you are in. The fact that you are reading and participating and being here - that IS a step forward every day.

Even if you fall off the bus every day (or every second day - yes ma I'm looking at you here...) even if you're so far out of the side car that your enormous knickers are billowing out behind us like a glorious sail, even if you're sitting up front and shitting yourself that you might fail....

All of this, all of this, all of this is taking us forward....

Cling on. You'll be with us x

70hours · 05/11/2014 07:59

Morning - I like your words Venus - Day 24 for me