My ex called my lady garden a 'guy'...gay?

[Nais83]

Been wondering a while but my last ex called my lady bits a guy......we were playing in the bedroom and he touched me and said 'hey little guy' ......this was a guy who went to bed with a teddy bear and hot water bottle and told me he peed sitting down....I stayed with him for a year despite him being a workaholic but all this stuff confused hell outta me...any thoughts??

Wow, I have to email DP right away to see whether he 'hooks it under the seat'

This has made my day!

Some lovely homophobia on this thread. Not just from the obvious, but all those who assume that being a little odd = gay, being socially inadequate = gay, or indeed that 'feminine' behaviour = gay.

I've been out for 31 years, and have never noticed any affinity of gay people to teddy bears, peeing sitting down, or living with their parents.

OP, there is no way of telling from a couple of isolated behaviour traits whether someone is gay. The strongest evidence you have is that he told you he thought he might be - but even then, I don't know, gay is as gay does I reckon.

I really must tell my big bear of a butch hetero husband that people on the internet think he's gay or indeed 'feminine' because he sits down to wee.

Some people do have some odd ideas...

"I really must tell my big bear of a husband"

You'd best not google 'gay' and 'bear'.

Devora, yep. I find most of this thread very frustrating and kind of offensive. I don't offend easily and I'm not a member of the PC brigade, but come on people! Isn't it about time we moved on from this stupid stereotyping?!

I'm aware knackster

Is that the same man with the smiling penis?

1/10

No it is not that guy put me off men for good long while

It put you off men for a while?

Just not me. With smiling penis' ey?

The bit I'm most amazed about is claraschu....

She MAKES her kids sit down to pee. FFS... whats going to happen to these kids at school? I'll bet money not one of the other boys would dream of mocking them for that.

And op, 1; he's an ex, why bother? And 2; he's an ex, why bother?

DH sits to pee if he is tired or has had a drink or I am in the bath and he is sitting talking to me He is not gay.

Teddy? Strange but not a sign of being gay.

I have a hot water bottle when the nights are cold-for my feet. I am not aware of being gay.

What a crock of rubbish!

Er, what? OP I hardly think you're in a position to judge how your ex named your bush and genitals since you feel the need to call them your "lady garden."