"I'm good for just one kiss, not legendary love..."

[FolkGirl]

I'm over halfway through my Sunday night bottle of wine. So please forgive me if this is utter rambling bollocks...

I'm watching I Married the Waiter for the second time this evening and I can't really get my head around it all.

I don't want to be unkind to anyone, or whatever, because this is more about how I feel about myself than what I think about them. But just to say that I don't understand how some of these women genuinely believe that these men love them.

I'm 39. Not unattractive. Not slim, but not overweight. And I don't believe that anyone would genuinely be interested in me. So where do these women get their confidence from?! It baffles me.

You accepted a relationship with a man that didn't love you because your self esteem was low

Well said, temp

That's very true. I do know that and I think that's part of it. I wouldn't trust myself not to make the same mistakes again!