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Mortified. It MUST have been him that downloaded swingers app!

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Seishan · 28/09/2014 07:37

Yesterday I'm flicking through the iPad and notice an app on there called chance mingle. I clicked on it and it is as dodgy as it sounds, it's a swingers app. So my immediate thought is "dp wouldn't be stupid enough to download such a thing and leave it there!! Naughty ds has been messing on the iPad!". I went down to DP and told him what "ds had done". He reacted in a dry, weak voice saying " you're joking ... " and in hindsight, it was the voice of a man thinking "shit!".
Now, I didn't really think much of it ... But I've just been laid awake and it suddenly came to me "hang on, you need the password to download apps ... Ds doesn't know the password. I have trouble putting it in right half the time ... Does this mean it MUST have been DP?? I've looked on it and it seems to be set to our home city but I can't log in, no username or password has been saved.

Now for a bit of background info ... 3 years ago dp was found out on casual sex sites and chat sites. He swears he never intended to actually do anything and wouldn't do it again. 3 years later I find this. He knows I know all his email addresses etc so if he is re-registering on such sites he's using a new, secret email address and bring extremely careful with computer/phone history as I've checked all that out.

Is there any way he DIDNT download the app?? Only us two know the App Store password but to leave it on there for me to find??

OP posts:
Happylittlemouse · 30/09/2014 18:04

no it was right sorry, new to forums pls forgive xxx

AnyFucker · 30/09/2014 18:38

Happy Smile

peasandlove · 01/10/2014 01:54

I like the idea of blaming the cat. I think tinder would be the best app for fluffy to download Wink

MooseyMouse · 01/10/2014 05:08

I hope this is helpful. I spoke to a bloke once who was using a sex-chat app and he said he downloaded it from the cloud to his phone each day as he left for work and deleted it from his phone each evening as he got home. It takes just minutes and the phone appears "clean" if checked.

Sorry you're going through this.

LoveBeingAwakeInTheNight · 01/10/2014 06:25

I'm sorry you are going through this op, he doesn't want you to finish uni does he.

Get copies of anything that might be useful, speak to student finance, look on entitledto so you can find out how you will be financially. Are you in a mortgage with him or renting, whose name is it in?

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