Homeopathic ignatia is very good for grief. Holland and Barrett usually have it in . 30 c potency.
Bachs rescue remedy is also good as you are going through deep grief right now but don't worry you will be fine. Anger and grief are at opposite ends of the same scale as the anger kicks in you will get the strength.
I had so much support. My children, a friend whose fiancé was messing round with his ow's friend, a telephone friend, my mum. Everyone rallied it was incredible.
My snake told me he was having an affair and then told me he wasn't. It went on for months and months.
He carried his phone everywhere and I never got to see it
BUT
They always slip up and he left his computer open and it was all there. Her replies everything . She was berating him for not leaving, for not spending Christmas with her. She was not a happy bunny at all.
So they think they are wily and scheming but they always make mistakes.
Once it was out in the open I think I was the last person in the town to know.
Put your energy into protecting your finances.
My piece of doo doo ran up a £30,000 credit card debt which he thought I was going to be stuck with.
Luckily the judge saw different and as he'd ran it up after the marriage ended she said to him then that is yours.
I was too shocked to think it might have been mine to take much in of that day. Also as his next girlfriend had a house and therefore he had somewhere to live, the house was mine.
They can't come across as biased but the judge came shining through for me.
Curb your instinct to wreak revenge. Save it for the courts and getting your finances in order.
Best advice I can ever give anyone going through It. Trouble is its when you are most weak and vulnerable.
As I see it, he had his chance with you and he's blown it.
Don't be at all surprised if another woman comes crawling out of the woodwork.
Don't be fooled by his crocodile tears. He's crying for himself and the mess he's made of things.
Mine cried like a baby!