Hi.
sorry I post here a lot-only place I get any sense!
long story short.....I have a new SO. was going great 4 a few months and went to meet his friends at a party. They were all intoxicated and I was sober.
One girl in particular who he says is his best friend, wouldn't shake my hand, ignored me then stated I was chubby and a head case.
I don't know why because I was pleasant and everyone else was lovely, and they were clearly embarrassed when it happened. My SO started laughing (he was drunk too), but later told her (in the biggest display of kiss assing and flowery language not to do it again).
its early days and i don't know if i can be bothered with this. She never apologised and he just makes excuses and says i should give her a chance and wants us to hang out again.
Any advice???? x
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Odessa88 · 27/08/2014 15:18
This is like a scene from a playground....
For balance op:
My dp has/d a friend who when we got together was with someone, but when they split up she befriended me to try to get to dp. She used to say things to me like "wel, you know you can't be together (we are ldr)" or "I wanted a proper relationship, couldn't be with someone I couldn't see regularly," and so on. If dp was about she ignored me completely. then she started calling him telling him she misses him, asking when he's going to care enough about her to get in touch with her etc etc and telling him that he shouldn't be telling me any of this because it's just not normal for couples to share things. 
Did I say she "was" his friend? With the emphasis on "was" she is his friend no more.
Just walk away from this one op - some people thrive on drama. Dp's friend is such a person but he wouldn't stand for it. Your bf should be doing the same.
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OP, well done, you can do better than this- a baby adult with tantrumming toddler friends. You've definitely dodged a bullet- tell yourself this at weaker moments or read the testimonials of women on here. Out there are men who will treat you royally. Best of luck 
And to add, just think of them in giant babygrows holding a rattle ready to throw on the floor 
Good God!
I cannot BELIEVE these people are late 30s!!!
I'm sorry OP, I know it's your life, but it's hysterical. I'm only saying that now because you've clearly shown yourself to have enough sense to bail out PDQ.
Lucky lucky escape. Don't engage any more, naturally -though if you get any particularly annoying texts, one good reply would be:
'You know that old saying - you can judge a man by the company he keeps? Well you can, and I did, and that's about all there is to it. Bye-bye, you utter overgrown toddler!'
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