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hubby went on stag do last night and didn't text me all night...

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hudsonriver1 · 17/08/2014 09:49

Right tell me I'm over reacting but be gentle cos I'm 35 weeks pregnant. Feeling rather awful anyway.

Hubby went on stag do yesterday, had been winding me up about strippers etc all day and made me feel quite upset. He got to the hotel and was texting and then heard nothing until 9.30 this morning. I text him saying thanks for the text :(.and he replied 'morning'. Yet he had time to log into Facebook in the early hours.

Just feel a bit :(

I also am struggling with trust at the mo. He's very secretive with his phone, always has been. The other day he got a message on Fb which he said wasn't his phone making the noise but I knew it was. He denied it for ages and then finally sent me a picture of a naked girl his nephew had sent him on there. He's added a really pretty girl recently at work that bothers me. He put £70 into a 'secret' account a few months ago and then said it was for his son but then spend it on I don't know what and I couldn't even find a.card for the account....

Please tell me it's my hormones and I'm over reacting.

OP posts:
phoebeflangey · 17/08/2014 18:56

*hearing

hudsonriver1 · 17/08/2014 19:00

Dontgotosleep I'm really sorry if u feel I was ruse to you, I honestly didn't mean it to sound like that and I'm sorry

OP posts:
hudsonriver1 · 17/08/2014 19:04

I have just re read my post and your post dontgotosleep as I'm still Confused. U said hopefully he is just gping a little crazy before the baby comes so I simply asked what is that meant to mean as I didn't understand what u meant so by no means at all was I rude or out of order so I take my apology back.......

OP posts:
Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 19:12

Erm okay. I wont sleep tonight now, knowing that a stranger has taken their apology back!

hudsonriver1 · 17/08/2014 19:33

Haha pmsl! !!!

OP posts:
Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 19:35

PMSL? what does that mean,just curious.

Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 19:48

Oh just looked up the mumsnet acronyms. Glad I've made someone laugh. I'm LMFAO and ROLF

Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 19:48

With joy.

hudsonriver1 · 17/08/2014 19:58

Lol

OP posts:
Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 19:59

Good luck with your baby

Fairenuff · 17/08/2014 21:25

It's ROFL Dont, not ROLF.

Unless you're rolling on a laughing floor? Grin

Dontgotosleep · 17/08/2014 21:28

OOPS!. Now I am really ROFL.

DonkeysDontRideBicycles · 17/08/2014 22:37

Dear OP a year ago you put up a thread to which I (as well as others) responded. Here you are now expecting a baby and I am so sorry you're still unhappy.

When posters blame themselves for being 'controlling' or 'moany' their concerns are often valid but they doubt their own judgment. I don't know if your H did fool around or go even further this weekend but 12 months after I last joined one of your threads here you are still trying to look for good in the man you married who has a pretty sketchy way of showing you equal support, respect, enhancing your life.

I am not trying to kick you while you're down but really he has to stop dicking around and be a dependable loving H. Yanbu to expect better of him.

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