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Strangest crush of my life... I need your opinion please!

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ConfusedThirtySomething · 02/08/2014 11:10

I think I've developed a crush on my dentist. I'm in my mid-thirties and he is much older, about 50 years old.
I never believed in such things but I'm changing my mind now. I've only seen him 3 times (professionally) but... Anyway, I need more dental work done and was planning to have another appointment when I'm back from my holidays in a few weeks. However, my dentist suggested that I should give him a call when I am back from holidays, instead of setting up my next appointment. All because when I call him, we could meet during his lunch break or when he is nearly done with his work. The visit would be only to discuss my further treatment. On the other hand, maybe he just wants me to feel comfortable with him as a professional because he knows about my dental nightmares. Am I reading too much into it? During my recent visit, he was very attentive and kind. Touching my arm, he apologised that I couldn't rest my "poor arms". I was never is such situation and it may sound terribly naive to you. When we are having a conversation, we look into each other eyes all the time.. It's kind of intense and makes me feel dizzy. Gosh, that's really pathetic :)
What's your opinion? I'm not a single person and I mentioned that during my first appointment (not on purpose). He might be in a relationship too... But I REALLY fancy him. As a dental phob, I managed to survive a deep filling without a single grin on my face. Only because I was looking at him all the time. I even wished that the treatment lasted longer! It's very weird but I had been looking forward to my appointment and can't wait for the next one. This is the most bizarre thing that has ever happened to me.
What do you think about it? Help!

OP posts:
RedHeadFromLondon · 03/08/2014 20:44

Determined???

ChangelingToday · 03/08/2014 20:47

My dentist is a woman, I definitely don't fancy her. The other ones in the practice are all old, I'd love to know where these hot dentists are, curious now!
I think you should start thinking about ending your relationship, you sound unhappy.

PittTheYounger · 03/08/2014 20:50

OH SHAG THE DENTIST!! GO ON!

plinth · 03/08/2014 20:52

Agree with a pp who says this all sounds oddly familiar.

The arm touching, the staring into op's eyes.

Hmmmm definite bells ringing over here.....

plinth · 03/08/2014 20:52

Agree with a pp who says this all sounds oddly familiar.

The arm touching, the staring into op's eyes.

Hmmmm definite bells ringing over here.....

Marblewarble · 03/08/2014 22:40

Not the same as me then. He rang six months after I had finished treatment and asked if I wanted to go for lunch

springydaffs · 03/08/2014 23:16

Oh marble, you'll set her off again

You may be red but you're no longer pink OP Confused

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