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Husband has just left me...

18 replies

Quootiepie · 14/09/2006 13:08

Hes just walked out - back to his mums. What on earth am I supposed to do...???

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bluejelly · 14/09/2006 13:11

Oh god so sorry, was it out of the blue?

Medulla · 14/09/2006 13:12

Oh blimey quootie! Was this unexpected? You poor thing! Have you got some friends around?

pinkchampagne · 14/09/2006 13:12

Sorry to hear this. Is this the result of an argument?

Flamesparrow · 14/09/2006 13:13

Was there any hint of it coming???

No idea what to say really

Quootiepie · 14/09/2006 13:15

no... my ex got in contact with me and then husband just took his ring off and went

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BarefootJasnem · 14/09/2006 13:18

Will he calm down and come home?
I hope you can talk to him and sort things out...

Megglevache · 14/09/2006 13:19

Message withdrawn

Jazzi · 14/09/2006 13:24

My dp did this a few weeks ago, he had time to calm down and then returned home. Mil then had the children and we had time to talk and sort things out. Is this something that you could do??

badkarma · 14/09/2006 13:27

Why did he react like this to your Ex? Is he a jealous type? Ah I wish there was something I could do. Did he let you explain why your Ex was in touch?

Twinkie1 · 14/09/2006 13:28

Goodness - sounds like a bit of an over reaction - surely if you are committed enough to marry him you aren't just going to up and run off with your ex from a phone call.

Are you sure there is nothing on his part that is making him act like this??? Has he been happy lately?

Quootiepie · 14/09/2006 14:21

He left i think because hes scared because he has been very cruel in the past...but ive had nowhere to run. He came back and bought some food for me (i dont drive yet) and has left again. Im abit stunned right now.

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bluejelly · 15/09/2006 11:32

How are you today QP?

Quootiepie · 15/09/2006 11:40

he came back

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Quootiepie · 15/09/2006 11:40

thanks for asking

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JessaJam · 15/09/2006 11:42

[bemused] So he left because he is scared that you might leave 'this time'...isn't that a bit self-defeating? Or do I mean self-fulfilling prophecy?

JessaJam · 15/09/2006 11:43

Oh, okay, is everything going to be sorted out then?

Quootiepie · 15/09/2006 11:43

yep... getting in there first I guess.

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Quootiepie · 15/09/2006 11:44

guess so!

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