Had enough

[hadenoughofhim]

Am I really bad about thinking of leaving dh?

I've just suggested a family walk as I have been away since yesterday morning and we needed a few things from the shop - I feel like shit anyway but thought it would be a good idea but no he wants to sit in from of the cricket all day then makes out it is my fault I feel ill and that I didn't have to take both kids with me (ds decided he wanted to hve a go at crossing the road by himself)
I cleaned the kitchen before I went away yesterday & it now looks no different to before I cleaned it
I just wonder if it is time to end the relationship as he isn't going to change and cricket will always rule his life he is even shouting at the kids for makng too much noise and they are upstairs with me

sorry for rant!

Sorry to hear you're having a bad time. Is this typical of husbands behaviour??Will talking to him make him realise how seriously pissed off you are? They're all,IMHO, lazy gits when it comes to cleaning up, mine doesn't seem to even see mess. Is there something more serious going on here? Is he feeling neglected (diddums), because you've had some time out?

Unless you really know in your heart that its over? try asking calmly for some extra help, or suggest spending time togeather especially on a sunday I still think its a family day, sports is on all week. If youve already done all that kick his lazy selfish arse on your way out

Thanks
I told him that he could have recorded the cricket but his reply was it wouoldn't be the same!!??

He then started blaming the kids for something going missing so that was the last straw I told him to stop blaming them for things he lost his rag so I went & packed our bags!!

That shocked him into realising that I meant it (he had told me twice to pack them & leave)
unfortunatly the kids witnessed all this and got upset although they did think it was good fun to be packing bags

We talked and he has said that he is going to help out a bit more - we'll see

Well I need to go and unpack the cases now but I won't be afraid to do it again.

Sorry kids got involved, lets see if it does any good keep up asking for changes dont let him think it was just temper ..