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Feelings about baby's dad ??

29 replies

Bobbi1234 · 21/06/2014 21:55

Hi all
I am 4 months pregnant with my first child I am not with the father he was a friend from work we got very drunk and well yeah now I am pregnant. When I told him about the baby the day of my first scan he started asking questions like what about us? Like he wanted a relationship and I I told him the best thing to do is see how everything goes with "us". He wants to be involved with the baby and has been to my house a couple of times to help me put things up in baby's room and stuff and each time we have slept together he also texts me everyday. Then I found out last night he is still in a secret relationship with his "ex" who I may add I work with and has not spoke to me since she found out I was pregnant with his baby but I thought she was upset because he was her ex and she still liked him. But like I said they are together and he has asked her not to tell anyone at work but the keeps of letting her down and things. But he also said to me not to tell anyone at work what going on between us because we want to see how things go! Am I wrong to be upset with him as he made out to me like he liked me and wanted to give things ago ? I actually thought there was a chance we could have something and now I have got to see his stupid face at work on Monday and I don't know if I will be able to go in that place without beating the life out of him lol

OP posts:
Cabrinha · 22/06/2014 19:28

"I could floor her"
Really?
Grow up, you're going to be a mother.

Solasum · 24/06/2014 21:42

Just wanted to check you are ok Bobbi?

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 21:53

He's loving this I bet. He Wi be sleeping with you, the woman at work and the woman with the 1 month old baby. How old is the other baby he has.

My only concern her would be getting checked for an STI and quickly. I find it truly disgusting he was probably sleeping with 2 other women unprotected whilst sleeping with the mother of the month old baby. He's an absolute disgusting fanny rat. Why would you even sleep with someone unprotected whilst pregnant knowing he is sleeping about? You really need to get some self respect and sort yourself and the baby out.

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 21:55

I'm shocked your work think this is okay and he can work himself round the woman there.

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