What is wrong with him and why do i care

[onionlove]

My STBXH is moving to his new flat in two weeks, we are separating due to his use of prostitutes, lying about it etc. Separation itself is ok, will tell the dcs soon am dreading that they are 2 and 4. Anyhow ive got so pissed off today and i don't really know why. Kids and i were watching iPad and email kept pinging so i had a peep he has joined a dating site, not one to meet a nice new gf but one to meet dirty women who like pretty indescribable things. What is wrong with him, has he developed some kind of habit and is looking for someone to do it with for free, what happened to the person i married, am i being a prude, are all men like this in secret? Why do i care i just wish he could move out now!

think of it as growing pains. you're growing out of him but your original hopes for your relationship are still in your memory and it hurts to grow out of them.

he'll be gone soon. always remember what he is and what he does. that will help you not to regret. (its surprising, even when you split from someone horrible, after a while you start questioning whether or not you did the right thing).

Thank you, i know these things happen but i don't understand how he was perfectly fine for years and is now like this i cant bear to look at him