Do we have any threads/book recommendations about moving on from an abuse relationship?

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Not a normal DP/DH relationship, though.

Abuse from friends, in-laws those kinds of relationship.

Any tips?

Or do we just rely on good old time??

:)

You could try the 'stately homes' thread. If by abuse you mean that someone has been routinely bullied by other then it could be worth them talking to a GP and seeing if they can get a referral to a psychotherapist. The biggest adjustments (IMHO) are a) restoring self-esteem/confidence by seeing themselves as a survivor rather than a victim & b) learning how to identify, disable and reject difficult people exhibiting bullying behaviour going forward. CBT can be useful