Where and how are they now?

[GrannyOnTheSchoolRun]

A few weeks ago there were two women posting on this board and they've stayed in my thoughts. I'd like to know how they are doing if possible.

One was a lady who's husband told her on Christmas day he was moving on. He subsequently became ill and I gather it was serious. The lady was in a terrible state and she's in my thoughts. Is she around to give an update to genuine concern.

There was also another lady who's husband had an affair with a co-worker, the lady called it his 'so called affair' She was trying to sort things out and he was supposedly doing the same. He was still in touch with the other woman. I think about this lady as well and would genuinely like to know how its all working out for her.

someone posted an update thread the other day, about being pregnant and abandoned. i wondered if she was the lady whose original concerns included not being able to bring up her child on her own because she didn't have even a proper dining table. i really felt for her - when you're desperate, problems that would seem small under other circumstances grow to huge proportions.

i hope she's ok, wherever she is.

Thank you :)

Foadmn, the lady you mention isn't one of the ones Ive been thinking about, but I do hope the lady you've mentioned is OK.

OK, I found the threads and have sent a one line message to both of them asking how they are.

The one that stays in my mind is Auch.

Me too, Vivacia. She haunts me.

Its strange how total strangers can enter your life through a screen and be a person or people you wake up thinking about some days, or they pop into your head at various other times.

yes there are times when I have seen a thread and wondered what has happened when the person doesn't respond or reply after a couple of days or says they are going to delete the thread even though people are giving them good advice.

So I've heard from one of the ladies and she's well.

Who was Auch?