Just discovered dp has been watching porn

[Tea1Sugar]

And it really upset me. I don't know why but it does. Aibu? My body confidence is shite as I had a baby 8 weeks ago, still a stone to lose and I'm sporting a csection overhang. We didn't have sex at all during my pregnancy due to hyperemisis so, yes, the guy is frustrated but I feel really upset.

YANBU to feel how you feel, you are entitled to feel however you like, but you must talk to him about it. Depends how you feel about porn generally as well. I get the CS overhang thing, really, and feeling unsexy but try to ask him about it without making it about you as such. If he hasn't had sex for 10 months, is it really unreasonable for him to find an outlet?

I should have been more specific. We haven't had intercourse no, but he's had loads of orgasms through foreplay so he's hardly had a dry spell per se

Surely guys can find an outlet with wanking to screen images.
Wanking is fine, but I think it is disrespectful and insensitive to get your sexual thrills by leering on line whilst your wife has recently given birth, recovering and breastfeeding? Not nice to think if your dh getting turned on by girls on line.

does he know how you feel about it ? have you discussed it before ?

If you haven't discussed it with him previously then he may well think that he is being considerate by having a wank rather than asking you for sex. Talk to him, let him know how you feel, and see if the two of you can come up with a policy that suits you both.