signs of something suspicious or my own paranoia?

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Me and DH have issues, it's a long story. Today we go out as its pissing down he puts his phone in my bag or it gets wet in his pocket. I (innocently) see a new txt from a number not a name saying 'but I do worry about you, your my bestie xxx' I know calling someone your bestie mean best friend but I know his best friend and he would never put x's at the end. When we got home DH took his phone into bathroom when he had a shower (which he NEVER does) and then when I quickly looked again it had gone. Usually if he has a txt or call from just a number he will ask if I know the number in case it's someone we know if not he will delete it. Do you think it's suspicious or just a wrong number maybe?

You said that you and he had 'issues'. Are you going to be taking steps to address those with him?

Keep your eyes and ears open seems sensible advice.

But if those issues you referred to are still rumbling on I don't think you should delay sorting those out in the hope of getting concrete proof H is up to something.

We did look into counseling but can't aafford the travel costs as well as the fee for the sessions. We have both said we feel stuck in a rut with our relationship