feel so lonley

[jesy]

Peeps on the dating thread will no I have a so called toxic friend, who puts me down lots but basically she the only one.
I have my e. Bf who is lovely but I hardly see him and yesterday we kissed a d so I think I've messed up there I made a fool of myself.
Plus the guy I was seeing still texts but that's it.
I'm so lonely my job makes me isolated , I'll spend today in my room alone
I've not got much confidence and wen I do make grandfather don't stick around.
Found out a few weeks ago a friend I was close to for years is pregnant but didn't tell me as I'm not in that circle again.
I went on dating site but heart not in it .and I know it not answer.

Sorry to go on

Are there hobbies you enjoy or volunteering you could do to meet new people?

Sounds like you're in a rut & need to work on your confidence by going for a complete change of scene. Job, friends, location even. A toxic friend who puts you down is not a friend. If you stick around her she'll drag your confidence down further. An ex boyfriend (e. Bf?) is an ex for a reason but it's not too late to call time.

What are you interested in? What kind of things make you happy?

Is there any way you could change your job? I'm at home for the first time ever and I can see that working from home could be very isolating. Most of my friends are work or ex work. Ditch the horrid friend she's not helping. Can you try and reconnect to your pregnant friend/ that circle?

Investigate new interests - look at www.meetup.com and www.do-it.org, a new job, some exercise (or at least getting outdoors) - these will surely help.

Nothing will change if you do nothing. And dump the ex and the toxic friend. Life is hard enough without anyone darkening your doorstep to make it worse.

I know I need to find another job been applying again . This job was meant to be a temp post but can see me getting stuck I feel like every day the same.
I was I'll last week so that mean no pay so no money this week
The ex is ok we broke up two years ago and see him a handful of times.
I guess since it all went wrong my confidence has gone

Cooking makes me happy but I struggle to eat at times
My dog makes me happy
Reading bit at mo seem to have lost intrest
Waiting on a referral for ED clinic

Hello jesy Hope you're okay. Get out and about with your dog - pets, exercise and being outdoors all help to lift the mood, and keep posting if that helps.

Have some

Hi
I'm on dating thread as well but part of me feels I shouldn't be now .
Iam on late shift all week so by time I'm home n eaten it's late to walk dog.
No chance I can get back in the same group as my pregnant friend I don't belong there now

Sorry sent to soon.
They all work in a professional job now and I don't
I've never really had friends so I'm used to it but since stating dating a few years ago I've realised how much I miss people , loved being part of a group x

You mention an ED clinic. If you are struggling with an eating disorder, please go back to your doctor and try to get yourself bumped up the list. If you're not eating properly, sheer lack of nutrition and energy will add to your feelings of depression and fatigue. It's a cyclical thing unfortunately... loss of confidence/stress/hopelessness etc can lead to the ED getting worse, and the effect of and ED on the body will exaggerate your lack of confidence and so forth. So please keep bothering your doctor short-term and, if you can't get the clinic place just yet, push them to do something to help short-term

I had a cancelation appointment yesterday which was good x
I'm shattered all the time ,had a mini boost today only a smile n wave but made me feel less ugly x

Glad you managed to get an appointment jesy

Take care of yourself.