kick up the backside required, please!

[JanuaryKat]

On monday I will be taking papers to the local court to get a 'preventative steps order'

This will mean, if granted, that there are restrictions regarding soon to be x h contact with the dc's. & hopefully there won't be a repeat of what happened a few weeks ago when he took the dc's on holiday abroad & delayed bringing them back.

It has taken me weeks to get the money together for this. But Im scared of going through with this.
H is making life very difficult - letting himself into the house all hours (owned jointly, but he does not live here).

Im feeling bullied. He ranted at me in front of the dc's about how useless I am a couple of days ago. The thing that really got to me was the look of hatred on his face.

I know he had been in the house last wednesday when I was out.

Are you oking ?

Please do not up your dose of this potentially lethal respiratory-system depressing opiod without checking with your doctor first

this is what can happen

*joking

*opioid

Sorry, I was typing too fast.

*joking

*opioid

Sorry, I was typing too fast.

You've lost your house keys?? Oh dear, you had better change those locks

Im fine

Change the locks. If you need to give him a reason (which you don't), just say you think someone is accessing the house when you are out.

How far through the divorce are you? I hope you have a good Solicitor who will ensure you and the little ones get the financial support you deserve from this idiot.

Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated.
I think I'm becoming more depressed (there, said it). So it is good to have a safe place to ramble.

See your doctor, love