what shall I do, I've been seeing this guy on a very casual basis since january, basically no strings sex, I was very happy with that at first, but now I think I like him more than that. I don't want a proper relationship with him, but I do want to know if he has any feelings for me or if it's just sex. I just can't seem to find the right way to ask him without sounding needy or like I'm rushing things, i suppose I want to think of a dignified way of asking. He has given signs before that he does like me, the sex is incredibly intense and intimate we've had some lovely moments together and he got all emotional one evening before going home, (he had planned to go home that night anyway) and he sent me a text later saying he was getting really emotional while were cuddling and he had a lump in his throat and that was why he'd had to leave. last time we were together i told him i liked him but he just went quiet and i changed the subject, it was awkward, i want to text him and ask him how he does feel about me, at least if i ask him and he isn't interested i can start to move on.... but how shall i ask him? it sounds stupid but i just can't seem to find the words...