Any good sites/resources for getting over (abusive) relationship?

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Or just plain getting over someone who is no damn good for you. I have failed so many times but this time I must, must, must, must stay strong

Are you on about getting out and staying out? Or coming to terms with what happened and getting past the after effects? If it's the former, Freedom Programme, the EA thread on here and my shitlist about my ex which was added to and reread over an rover. If it's the latter, I'm still working on that.

Yep former to start with. I have started the freedom program online. just purchased paul mckenna's 'i can mend your broken heart' - i really hope he can!

Must get out my old shitlists about shitlist and add to them and read regularly!

Counselling.

Yes yes to counselling. I found writing and listening to music really cathartic too. I broke up with mine a year ago - the album that helped me was Florence & the Machines Lungs, there's a few more, I will try and remember.

BaggageReclaim is good, in fact it's ever so good - worth digging around
www.baggagereclaim.co.uk

Thanks all. I have been lucky enough to get re-referred for counselling and start next week (was there last time cause of him....)

I have a lovely little notebook that I was going to start writing in but I thought what a waste of such a pretty notebook to write about a toxic idiot in it.... maybe i will just see it as my recovery book rather than a book about him

Going to look for that music on youtube

And baggage reclaim looks great - think i will be on there for a bit today