After scanning the threads, all topics about this seem to be that us women are having problems wanting sex after our babies but my DS is now 51/2 mths old and I am gagging for somebut I have a reluctant partner. He wouldn't have sex whilst I was pregnant which I understand, then it was the breastfeeding (which is just stopping). Feeling pretty unattractive now and like a Nun as it has been well over a year. Am I alone or is there anyone else with strange partners out there?