should i just accept....

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That my dh is not one for affection.
how important is attraction and affection in your relationships. It would just be nice when i make the effort to feel loved. I know ppl have different ways of showing affection. Iike for example someone making dinner might be their show of affection but i am not receiving anything if i dressed in bin bags i wouldnt be noticed. Its how he is theres no one else just wondered if anyone can help me get round it? Is it a matter of tellling myself i look good?

@Garlic lol that cracked me up!! Dont think so been together since teens.
I mean 'type' who cant hold a conversation about personal issues it has to drag over a peroid of time because he struggles with feelings.

Blimey, he sounds like haaaaard work.

Glad you got a giggle

:-)
Yes hard work but i want to work it through.i will look up that book on amazon.

No, no Garlic :) It was His Needs Her Needs.