DH disturbing my sleep

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I go to bed at midnight usually, DH always stays up later. I usually stir when he comes to bed, even though he's quite quiet.

This morning it was 03.02! He's off on holiday this week but regularly does this even when he has to be up at 6 for work. Then ge's napping in the evening. So annoying.

I had to get up early this morning, so feel pretty knackered today.

He does do, but I wake the minute he walks in the bedroom!

Can't be just go to bed earlier? He can't be getting enough sleep either. His behaviour is selfish and frankly it's bloody unsociable to nap in the evening like that when he could just go to bed earlier. The evening is the only time a working couple can actually spend together, isn't it?

I know it's all a bit rubbish really. I think he's selfish but he has said he'll make an effort to come to bed earlier, so if that happens it will really help.

Sorry- I was a bit blunt. I just would feel cross and resentful in your position because if my dh did this, we'd never spend any time together. Is you relationship ok otherwise?

It's fine, he'd take advantage and have everything his own way if he could. I'm a pretty strong person so he gets told if he's taking the p though.

I think he's been indulged in his life before me! I blame his mother for never sleep training him!