LIbido boost needed - any ideas (not romantic dinners!)

[suzeg]

Would love to know of any quick fixes - I'm not talking massage and walks on the beach here - more chemicals and drugs! I vaguely remember reading about some kind of scent patch or something that is supposed to get you going... and boy do I need to get going ? Any ideas?
Thanks.

Damiana drops (available Holland and barrat) apparently good. But have just read recently that Fenugreek (again available in capsules from health shops), while usually taken by b/f mums to promote lactation, is also good for libido, in addition to memory, combatting PMS and 'breast beauty'. So big round of applause for useful old fenugreek

OOH someone else like me Would love quick fix myself, having to go to relate and it is, although worthwhile... very long and drawn out!

without wanting to sound like a killjoy, it does depend on the reason for a big drop in libido. eg, if you are depressed, just knackered from looking after small children, or suffering from a hormonal imbalance, there probably isn't going to be a 'quick fix'. You need to look at the whole picture too.

"breast beauty" . Fenugreek here I come...

Get reading a raunchy novel.

VVV

What?

Seriously, on a similar theme, why not see acouple of raunchy films??

told that 9 1/2 weeks is hot, though I haven't seen it.

and there's a scene in The Postman Always Ringings Twice that gets sems to be 'popular', but again not seen that one either (so sheltered!)

or wander more deeply in the world of porno stuff? Yes it is matter of taste, but that is up to you??

sorry, kidding VVV.

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I know Callisto - the 'breast beauty' bit came from a very old, obviously translated from another language guide to herbalism I have; but I couldn't think of a better description! Still, can't hurt eh? I also understand fenugreek is one of the main 'ingredients' in those stupid 'make your beasts bigger' compunds they flog on tinternet for obscene amounts of money...

If you're not ttc you could try the herb Agnus Castus (aka Vitex.) Apparently it sorts out your hormones and all sorts. You can get it in Boots (although they also do a libido-boosting pill for women anyway I believe.)
Longer term, how about dancing lessons together? Lots of face-to-face intimacy and you don't have to feel daft because you're just doing what the instructor tells you. Salsa is nice and easy, gets the blood pumping a bit more.

go for the erotic novel!

'write' one together

Has anyone read the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty books? Total carp but quite exciting and not embarrassing to buy

Ginseng is good and it will also boost your energy levels.

I know Panboy...twas mock shock...

any ideas what the libido boosting pill is?

this looks fun