yr this weekend found out DH having affair....

[mistressmiggins]

and life is so different

still have occasional bad days - who wouldnt with 2 kids under 5 but......have BF !!

he is attentive (arent all men to begin with) has custody of his 9 yr old daugther.....txts me daily (at least every hour)

its just fab....its also hard to trust but am just enjoying male company and snogging feel like I did at 15 !!!

Just popping over here to add another big grin for you.

That's really good to hear MM. So pleased for you. And snogging, coo! I can't remember last time I snogged.

snogging, how fab, have you got that lurvely fluttery tummy feeling!

Just wanted to add a big grin too its just over a year that my husband left me, I've got 2 under 2 which is fun but I have never been happier just need a BF now........heres hoping!!

Oooh lovely! Does ex know?? Is he p*ssed off? Good-o

wow thats great MM..p.s does he have a hunky single brother??

I tell you - its like being 15 !!!
I couldnt believe it !!

he is a really nice bloke and is v keen

not telling ex as think he will hold it against me and cut my money and obviously last thing am going to do is rush into anything so need money for kids

makes you feel giddy kissing someone new

funnily enough spacey he DOES have divorced Brother - not sure we live near enough to you but you never know

funnily enough spacey he DOES have divorced Brother - not sure we live near enough to you but you never know

lurvely fluttery tummy feeling!

oh yes !!!

oh wow! i love that fluttery feeling you get when you kiss someone new..you go for it and enjoy it, you deserve it.

just txt him saying speaking to you lot (obviously no details about website)

just had txt with lots of xxxxxx

feel guilty for not mourning long enough but there again just happened to find him - wasnt particularly looking... and hes soooo nice BUT not my usual type

Bollocks to the mourning!
You didn't break things up!
Don't they say you need a month to mourn every year you were together?
Were you together for 12 years?

nope - together 9 yrs so actually I did manage 1 mth per yr

even so....just dents your confidence - eg yesterday got txt mfrom him saying havgin bad day 0 was convinced that was it - of course it wasnt but sooo hard to trust again - he is sooooo lovely - even feel guilty for liking him !!

he sounds like a great dad too - has exactly same morals/committment to kids as I do

So how did you meet him?

happy for you hope things carry on going well.

internet of course

no one has met him
have told close friends and family but noone met him yet
thats cool
his friends want to meet me
I am happy just spending time with him to begin with

its soooo weird but really fancy him !!

and just wanted to say that without MN....

I wouldnt have trusted my instincts...
I wouldnt have confronted exH
I wouldnt have had the guts to ask him to leave
I wouldnt have realised I could manage with 2 children under 4

here we are...
a family where the kids think "once a fortnight" daddy is good; that all is fine & normal; and mummy deserves her own happiness

thanks to all of you

lol at 'snogging'!! That feeling is great isn't it

yeap!!
but thats what it is - snogging - just like you did as a teenager
feels fab

MM
You are so welcome.

Now all we need is to get LW to where you are now.

quite right Sherlock

she needs to ask Beety for some tips - see her thread where shes been on Match.com