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DP has left

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arghhelpme · 14/04/2014 20:46

Just packed up his stuff and has gone. I am pregnant with his child and have 2 dc from a previous relationship.

I feel so lost and don't know where to go from here.

Am on sick leave from work and it looks like i wont be able to go back. I feel so depressed and am a huge mess. Doesn't help that my gp took me off ads as soon as i told him I was pregnant. Feel lime that is what has caused all of this.

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Chocolate99 · 14/04/2014 21:05

So sorry to hear that, was it a complete shock and diid he say why? You are not a mess, the situation isnt a mess, but a little unexpected. You still have your lovely children, can you contact tax credits etc to see where you stand that way if you cant go back to work? Take it one step at a time, i know its a cliche but things might look better in the morning too, prrhaps call your GP to get an appt, if you cant be on meds is there an alternative therapy you could have in its place? Super big hugs and hope things get better soon for you and your little ones x

arghhelpme · 14/04/2014 21:09

Thank you.
We had a bit of an argument last night over dc1's behaviour and a week after finding out I was pregnant he admitted he was thinking of leaving.
I just feel like a mug. Let him move in, he has racked up debt in my name and then be tried to say I have been using him?! It's probably for the best but just feels weird.

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