So...
Met a guy a few weeks ago, and yesterday was our 4th date (we had just arranged to hang out at my house) and we DTD.
Afterwards we were talking and cuddling and the subject of previous relationships/dating came up. I said after being cheated on by a previous partner, I'd taken a long break and he was the first person I'd dated.
He said that he'd been seeing a girl last year and she dumped him out of the blue, and it really made him question what was wrong with him etc.
He said nice guys always finish last, and that he'd never be the first one to say 'I love you' first due to fear of rejection. I said it was far too early for the I Love You speech, but I did want to know where we were going, and his reply was it's a bit too soon to go down the girlfriend/boyfriend label, and he just wants to take his time. I agreed and we left it at that.
We were totally comfortable with each other after that, and after about 7 hours he went home.
We're going to the cinema tomorrow night, and all seems normal.
What I'm asking is, do I continue down the slow route with him, or do I not put all of my eggs in one basket? I don't have any bad gut feelings about him at all, I'm just unsure how to act?