FFS - Just had a row with dh - going on our hols tommorrow - am I unreasonable????

[tiswas]

We're off on our holidays tommorrow and this afternoon after dropping our cat off at the cattery dh tells me he's arranged a game of golf for 5.30 this afternoon !!
I've been running around like a blue assed fly all day still got loads of packing to do - and he wonders why I'm pi**ed off
I don't mind doing all the packing if it ws left to him god knows what we'd be taking with us but would like a hand with dd 3.4 while I get on with things!!
We're off really early in the morning so we all need an early night - Bloody golf why is it so much more important than anything else??
He hasnt gone, but now he's all quiet which suits me because I'm soooooo angry its just as well he's not speaking to me!!
Happy holidays

I would treat him like you would a child. Ignore him. Don't crack. If he had discussed it first with you, put all he wanted to take on the bed and said he would do XYZ for you, then maybe...

God no, I'd be fuming. Why don't men THINK.

Pack everyone else's stuff and not his, let him sort his own. My DH actually turned a game of golf down when he realised he was already going to Arsenal on the Saturday and that he shouldn't be away both days of the weekend. I nearly fell over.

Have a fab holiday.

Well, still not speaking! He's sorted out dd, bathed, fed and in bed so I suppose he's done his bit. He put a lasagne in the oven without being asked think I may go silent more often !!

cheeky fker. How would he have felt if you'd have said 'i'm just off to the spa and sauna love, can you pack/cook/look after dd#? I don't think so.

I love the idea of the spa/sauna, wonder why I have never thought of that.

If he's still going and you are still angry even after the help andlasagna, pack his things but forget his underwear.... Erm... that's the way I sorted DH , now he is helping and checking when I'm preparing the luggage.

Exactly www - Chandra Pmsl have to remember that one !!