When is it reasonable to know the times x will be picking up

[jellyjelly]

x still hasnt told me what time he is picking up ds this weekend even thought i said I would let him have ds at the begining of the week.

I need to be able to plan things

Ask him for a specific time or tell him that you will assume he isn't coming. That should at least get a response.

He blames it on his mum as he doesnt know what time she is down from.