Aibu to be really hurt by this comment?

[Dollslikeyouandme]

I've been with 'p' for 5 years, I have one dc from a previous relationship, been with p since ds was about 10 months old. So although not his child should be as good as.

I very rarely do anything on my own apart from go to work. My mum has ds about every few months overnight so that dp and I can go out.

I get my hair cut about every 3-4 months, I have to book the appointment a few weeks in advance but it's a great and cheap salon. Dp usually has ds while I get my hair done. It's the absolute only time he ever has ds on his own.

P is giving me the silent treatment since the weekend over something unrelated. He wouldn't give me an answer over whether I could still get my hair done, he's just told me I just see him as a babysitter and to ask my mum. A babysitter? Really?

I'm so angry but also hurt.

[Only1scoop]

He won't be ....and it's good that you are looking back over your prev threads....as you have had some brilliant advice on them.

Sad that its 5 years dolls and you feel like this.

A tragedy if you still sitting there crying in another 5 years.

If you don't break this cycle now....you may well be.

Hope not for sake of your ds.

[Lweji]

It has only been five years so far. I was with exH for over 10.
If you stay it won't get better and you'll have lost much more time.

[Fairy1303]

You are right. You have wasted 5 years on him.

Don't waste another minute.

[Optimist1]

Re-read your posts above, Dolls . It appears to the rest of us that you've given this relationship your best shot, tried everything possible to fix it and the time has come to call it a day.

Once you've diverted your strengths to building a new life for you and your child (away from pussy-footing around this unpleasant man) you'll be so much happier.

[Dollslikeyouandme]

I was reading a different posters thread about a woman who has messed up hers and her children's lives by letting some fuckwit hang around.

You can't always see it in your own life.