My DP is out atleast 4 nights a week keeping various hobbies and visiting his disabled friend, when he is at home he sits on his computer ALOT doing uni work, i feel like he is avoiding me.
Now he is secrative about his money even though we have a baby together, after feeling too suspicious and like something was a miss, i did what we have all done yet all seem to scorn eachother for doing, had a good old root through his phone. usually he clears his browsing history but for the past 3 weeks on a tuesday night when he has been saying he his at his disabled friends he has been watching porn on his phone, he hasnt been coming home for a sneaky wank because im here and our bathroom door fell off over a month ago 
i hate feeling like im breathing down his neck and i havent brought it up with him as i would be ashamed to admit to snooping but where the heck is he wanking?