I am head over heels and pining away for someone. He lives in the UK. I live in a different country. We are both single. But I have two DC so I can't move to his country for at least 7 years. We have been friends for 24 years and I have thought of him almost every single day. How can we ever find out if this could turn into a real relationship or if it's all in my head? It's driving me crazy, I can't stop thinking about him all the time.