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Licking fingers after being inside me...sorry for icky topic!

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Disconcerted · 13/02/2014 09:41

Really sorry for posting this, but it's bothering me.

Every time I have sex with my partner, he uses his fingers inside me, which is lovely and he takes it slowly, enjoys doing it, always does that before anything else, and so on.

But every time, he licks his fingers afterwards.

I ignored it for a long time but I have on occasion just said something like "oh, stop that" in a kind of lighthearted way, his response is always the same; "you're tasty".

It makes me feel like a KFC bargain bucket or something!

I mean, a quick google has proven that a lot of men do it, but it can't taste that good to want to lick your fingers afterwards, can it?!

I'm worried it's more like either a power trip sort of thing (although how it can be construed as that exactly, I don't know) or just a weird fetish.

What do you think? Do you get turned off by men doing this sort of thing or am I just a freak?

OP posts:
sausagesarenotafruit · 13/02/2014 19:26

AnyFucker I think I love you Grin

AnyFucker · 13/02/2014 20:10

Would you like me to lick your fingers, sausage ? Smile

LEMmingaround · 13/02/2014 20:50

Anyfucker and sausage - get a room!

ShowMeSaturn · 14/02/2014 01:17

Extremely sexy behaviour.
Lucky girl.

Daysnnites · 29/10/2024 07:57

I have the answer for you.

once I was seeing a guy and he loved using his tongue 😉. He’d often do fingers lick them or tried to put them in my mouth, he’d call it the “pussy juice test”. When I confronted him on it he asked if anyone else had done it before - course not hence I was asking him.
then he said it was the way men knew if it was all healthy and safe to approach down there.

No one wants to get started when the ph is off balance, he said it tastes delish when all is safe but can really put them off doing it again if not, an experience he’d rather not have.
apparantly is commonly known amongst men - it’s a test.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 29/10/2024 08:33

HerrenaHarridan · 13/02/2014 09:51

I don't see the problem tbh. Obviously if it makes you that uncomfortable you should ask him to stop but first have a good think about why it makes you so uncomfortable.

I think women taste utterly delicious and it's beautiful that he worships you in this way. Your cum beautiful and exciting to him.

You find your cum gross but in our society women are trained to think that anything that comes out of you 'down there' is disgusting and needs to be caught, hidden and disguised.

Have you ever read the vagina monologues by eve ensler, it might help you learn to love your vagina some.

I agree.

What about oral sex, OP? Do you not like that, or is it the finger-licking that puts you off? I’d be delighted that he finds me so delicious!

But if you don’t like it, do tell him gently. You don’t want such a small thing to spoil your sex life.

gamerchick · 29/10/2024 14:20

Why tf would anyone want to dig this up? Hmm

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