"I'm fattist"

[fackit]

That's what he said in our first phone call post some really great emails (OD) and pre a first date. I am so disappointed, it was going well up til then. It's kinda killed it for me. Where there's this kind of prejudice there's going to be more isn't there? I bet he's a DF reader too.

Oh well.

You should arrange to meet up over a meal. Tell him you normally eat at least 4 main courses, plus several starters and puddings, and would expect the man to pay.

Brokenhearted, maybe if it wasn't for the prejudice people wouldn't feel the need to post old pictures of themselves - fuck that! I am a big girl and i am sexy - some people like women with curves actually. I couldn't think of anything worse than a skinny bloke! If the big fat guy was kind, funny, had a nice face and we "clicked" it wouldnt bother me in the least.

fab limericks

Nope I think he's just a bigot, as Dahlen said. And tbh, yes, I AM cuntist

Lemmingaround - why is OK to dismiss skinny people but not fat people?

'I could think of anything worse than a fat woman.'

This is offensive. So the crap LEM wrote above is equally offensive.

OP the bloke sounds like a dick and you've had a luck escape.

couldn't

Indeed, I can think of a lot of things much worse than a fat or skinny person. Perhaps because I am not a knob.