someone has sent dh a valentines card

[LoveUall]

And it wasn't me... I'm so flippin fuming. It came in post yesterday and we been racking our brains who it may be. He thought it was me winding him up at first he's really amused by it and made a big deal of it on fb asking who it was, which I told him not to its giving whoever the attention. I'm really freaked out by it. I know by his reaction he's not got a clue who it is we've thought of a few people who may of sent it for a joke but they've denied it. They knew our full adress apart from last part of postcode and they know his full name. Maybe I'm over reacting but really annoyed by it. Card wasn't anything special was just a basic hallmark 1 and handwriting deffinately looks like a females. It was his birthday last week and and been comparing handwriting on his cards but not come up with anything.

Depends if you look outside your own relationship for ego boosts, doesn't it.

Bit rich! As a monogamist I've got no problem with polyamorists, not sure why they should have a problem with me!

hmc well done on using the correct word. Unlike me with my "non monogamist" ha ha

Still laughing at 'bucketheads' hahaha.

Ledkr - don't tell anyone but I had to look it up!

Sorry not sure what a buckethead is lmao had worse insults I guess :). How do I resent my husband? The ego bit I'm actually quite amused by I am deffinately not be-littling him or anything and I told him to his face and he's not in the slightest offended or anything. We are all totally different hence all the different opinions on here

To clarify (as was posting in a hurry and panicking about the raining coming from my ceiling) - a monogamist is someone obsessed with maintaining and policing monogamy, and who has bought wholesale in toe the cult of monogamy as the only permissible type of relationship - as opposed to someone who happens to be in/prefer to be in a monogamous relationship but, you know, has an actual life.

I really don't understand why this would cause any stress at all!
Why on earth would anyone be upset or angry? It makes no sense to me whatsoever.

How can the actions of someone outside my marriage, have any effect at all, on my marriage, when both parties in that marriage, had nothing to do with the incident?

Laugh, thrown it in the bin, this is no big deal at all.

sgb I just don't like sharing cock! What does that make me?

That makes you selfish