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Popped my internet cherry last night!

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CornishandPasty · 01/02/2014 16:49

On a dating site IM thing. It was really rather fun! He was very articulate and wrote ever so well (sexy but not smutty)....and did most of the typing :) as he knew I'd never done it before.

He gave me his phone number because he wanted to chat on the phone and swap photos (I didn't feel comfortable with that and obviously didn't give him my number). However afterwards Blush he said he'd like to meet up in RL and for me to text him if I felt the same. It was a really sexy experience but I'm really in two minds for meeting up .....although his photo is quite nice. I'm single.

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CornishandPasty · 02/02/2014 20:56

and rightly so.....believe me I've had my hands well and truly burnt by players online. But if you get wise to them and the whole process there are lovely, interesting guys out there. Not sure why it has such a bad press on here. OD marriages/partnerships are happening left right and centre which goes to prove they can't be all that bad.

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AmazingJumper · 02/02/2014 21:00

I think a general sense of weirdness on this site for the last few weeks has made people a bit hostile and suspicious of a sex thread.

And it feels a bit Victorian and 'women just want love and cuddles' and men are the big bad wolf preying on us.

He sounds fine, but prepare yourself mentally for the fact that it may not live up to your imagination.

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CornishandPasty · 02/02/2014 21:08

yes it does feel a bit like that I must say...Hmm

Oh absolutely jumper, I know if I do meet him, (probably unlikely), I wouldn't expect anything more that what it would likely be. My OD mantra is 'no expectations'...

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iamonthepursuitofhappiness · 04/02/2014 20:52

LOL, I see your point :-D So long as what you do floats your boat, no one elses opinion matters much.

LittleBabyPigsus · 04/02/2014 21:55

Friend and her husband met online and had phone sex before they'd even met -and obviously are married now! So I don't think what you did was that weird and neither is it a sign that he's untrustworthy.

tallwivglasses · 04/02/2014 23:08

Please tell me one thing. Is his spelling and grammar impeccable?

A friend of mine got into a potentially exciting conversation on POF but the poor bloke's shoddy English ruined it Grin

ellengeorgia · 04/02/2014 23:21

I'd go for it if I were you Cornish... don't see a problem with sexy messaging/talk before you meet in RL, works for some people.
Meet him for coffee see how it goes!

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