I am rubbish at setting boundaries. I always doubt myself.
Having a tough time with xp at the moment who was EA, verbally abusive and threatened me when we were in a relationship. I am still scared of him and don't want a scene in front of dc so usually end up backing down to keep the peace (I have gone as close to nc as I can over the last few years).
I am dreading the next time I see him as I am trying to be very very firm and I expect there will be a tantrum in response to this.
It's not just xp, it's all men. How do I get really good at setting boundaries with others?