He won't leave !!!

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I don't love my husband anymore and, though he hasn't said it, I don't think he loves me. I have asked him to leave and go to his brother's for a while to give us a break from each other, but he says he's not going anywhere and why should he. It seems he's prepared to just plod on for the sake of losing face to his family (who all hate me according to him) I'm sick and tired of the arguing, it's making me ill and although we've argued when dd(6) is in bed, there is no love in the marriage and she must feel this surely. Don't know what to do, I'm so miserable

MrsOakenshield has it spot on I think OP.

You both need to talk this out and obviously put your DD first. But when you say...

"I think he would love it if I just disappeared tbh then she would live with him but she is my dd and is going nowhere without me."

Please remember she is his DD as well. Her needs will be first and foremost and they may not necessarily be what you think they should be.

It's a horrible position for you all to be in but I'm sure you can all get through it.