Advice please ! Is this moving too fast

[Tia2005]

I met this guy 2 weeks ago this sat I've met him when I was out and I've met up with him 1 other time we talk on the phone everyday , he's says he loves me and wants kids with me and to marry me , he's told me a lot about himself he says he gets injections for stress and he says the doctors said he's got mental health . I just think this is moving too fast I told him that and it upset him I need advice please

This is not someone being 'a bit intense' this is actual full on stalking... He has met the op twice and he's already professed love and a desire for marriage and children and threatened to kill himself if she split up with him...

I think there is cause to be scared and to deal with it robustly by telling him straight you want no contact and calling the police if he contacts you.

You don't have to talk or do anything. No contact required.

Sorry xpost.

He's just trying to get you to meet him face to face. You have not been direct enough. His behaviour is out of order and you should tell him so and be prepared to contact the police if he persists in contact.

Say no to talking. You do not 'have' to talk and I strongly advise that you don't!

Agree with the others. That is insane. He is unstable - you've met him twice! His health is not your responsibility - Whether he has mh problems or not. Tell him you don't want to see him again.

Please text what Casmama said. Please please PLEASE don't meet him. You may be opening a monster can of worms at best! After two dates you are feeling this bad. Listen to that voice inside and avoid him. His problems are not yours. Dodge this almighty bullet.

I'm gonna copy and send that now thanks everyone for yr advice I no it's the right thing to do

Well I've sent it and now keeps calling me and leaving voice mail . God I'm so stupid for getting my self in to this

Switch your phone off.

Can you block his number? Delete the voicemails without listening to them.

Switch your phone off, what can you do for the rest of the night that's nice for you? Bath, book, magazine, your fave music?

He send me a message sayin I'm out of order doin this by text and saying unless I speak to him and say it's over we're still together

He will say anything to get you to speak to him- that last bit is fucking nonsense. Can you block his number?

Tell him you do not owe him anything at all after two dates and if he contacts you further you will consider it a threat and will call the police.

You're not 'together' if you have only ever met him twice! I have never heard of anything so ridiculous.

Oh and do not respond not matter what he says. The one exception being if he threatens you in and way reply "any further threats and I will contact the police, do not contact me again"

Hopefully it doesn't come to that.

I can't block his number on my phone :(

Just ignore him!

Ok no response then - any response will encourage him.

I'm not sure you should ignore him tbh. He needs to know he's frightening you and you will take steps to prevent this. Otherwise you'll be scared to walk round town and bump into him.

Just switch off your phone.

His behaviour is just proving what a bad idea it would be to meet up and discuss this in person.

No contact from now on, as I said earlier, at least he doesn't know where you live

His last text message was ::thats not good sending me that text without talking to me.
i guess am exspendable.
you dont owe me nothing but you could of let me hear it from you.
i want to hear you say its over, if not, talk to me.
as far as am concearned we are still together unless you say other wise.

Don't tell him he is frightening you certainly.

Could you ring 101 and just get some advice from the police about what to do?