Don't think I'm being unreasonable but maybe I am....dh works VERY hard and doesn't get much me time.......we've had a lovely day today went for dinner abd then had our lovely friends here for a cuppa.....he's now announced (and gone) that he's going out with his friend who is visiting for a few days....btw he's been out the past three nights with said friend.....I thought we might have spent some time alone since I never seem to get that chance these days !!!