Hi Ladies, "some deep breaths before i start to type" :-(
I will keep this as short as i can, in 2009 i met a man on the internet and we got married in 2010 when i was 5 months pregnant, i already had 3 children from my 1st marriage.
He is from Nigeria and i believed he had the right to work but after we were married i found out he was an over stayer on a visitors visa, at the time i was shocked he had misled me but i was were i was so we made a go of it and eventually he was given a visa for 3 years discretionary leave.
It has always be an effort to make the marriage work as there are cultural differences with children discipline and other stuff, he thinks i am too soft and the older kids walk all over me but they are 12 and 14 girls and can be difficult but i put this down to being teenagers.
Recently he has become more and more distant, ignores the children, shows no interest in anything not even his son and says i am a bad mother, fat etc etc!
Today he has said he is going but is taking our son with him and he has said before he will take him to nigeria..... he is obviously planning something as he has deleted all the browsing history and i feel so confused, i really need to take control of this situation i believe he will take our son!!
My emotions are all over the place