Honestly, i thought he changes i seen instantly were good enough to mak me see id made the right choice.
As for feeling guilty about stopping contact and taking him out of nursery. I dont anymore.
Im gobsmacked at how much calmer he is! He hasnt had a "rawr" moment in a good few days now. Those were frequent.
He is smiling all of the time. He is telling me he loves me at least ten times a day. Coming for cuddles and kisses - he never came for them before. It was just when i gave him them.
I am so happy 