Date Number 3

[Honeysucklerose]

Hi just had lovely 2nd Date with a guy , we hit it off and had a good time , he was very thoughtful and kind, mmmmm the thing is this is my first date in 2years ............, so wondering what we should do for a 3rd date ?, or shall i just wait for him to suggest something?

Isn't date 3 traditionally spent in bed?

Lol! well we are both in our 50s so not sure how to play it !

In bed! Your age should have nothing to do with it

I would see if he comes up with something but have something in mind in case he doesn't mind what date 3 is.

What did you do for the first two dates?

I know age has nothing to do with it , just nervous but excited at the thought of seeing him again, first 2 dates we went to Art Exhibitions , 2nd date we had lunch .

i mean when is it okay to ask them back to mine !, without seeming you know too forward !

Then you need a third date with alcohol and nudity.

MMM good thinking! lol !

As a bloke I would love an invite to Dinner! You can then see how it goes.....No need to invite back then. He is already there :)

Ahh many thanks maleview , it had crossed my mind but being alittle unsure thanks for the input maybe I will do just that

thanks for all your input MNERS!

No, no...do NOT cook for him yet!

Let him pick the next date and pay for it.

Why should he pay for it MyChild? So that Honey can 'reward' him with sex?!

I am getting really quite depressed by some of the stuff I am reading at the moment - we are now well into the 21st century, but so many people seem desperate to cling on to notions last fashionable in the 1950s.

Okay thanks for the input Mychild and DivingBell, not heard from him since Sunday so dont know if it is going happen the 3rd Date , but I have now decided to let him contact me and see what he suggests..............and take it from there hopefully!

Cinema? (If you don't want to spend Date 3 in bed, that is!)

Horsemad , my thoughts exactly BIG thanks!

And NO I do not want to spend date no3( if there is one )in bed , too quick for me like to get to know someone , call me old fashioned but that is the way i am.

You go at your pace Honeysucklerose

Aww thanks Horsemad , yea could not be rushing in ..................too scared and especially as we met online ...........so thinking tonight He may not contact me again, and thinking oh well least i had 2 dates and feel okay as it has been such a long time, thanks anyway .

He might be sitting wondering if you are going to call him!

Good point ! I am such a woose! will send him an email , thanks.

Okay update I emailed the guy he responded and was friendly , but no mention of a 3rd Date, mmmm do I take the intiative and ask him???, Or just leave him to come back to me ?

If you like him, ask him. If you're not bothered, don't.

Thanks Cogito , yea I do like him we got on really well I thought

Ask him!

If you feel like it's becoming hard work and you"re doing all the running, then back off .