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2 weeks on and im missing nothing..

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wontletmesignin · 16/11/2013 18:38

How does that work? I honestly am not missing him at all in the slightest. We have all moved on as though he was never here.
It is plain to see that everyone in the house is happier. So i dont know if he dragged us all down that much, we are now able to enjoy the simple things again?
Which has caused us to focus more on that, than him?

I just find it a bit strange! I thought it was natural to go through a kind of missing/grieving process. But no, nothing at all!

Am i abnormal? I dont think that is the case, as like i said, my dc are all happy too.
It really is as though he was never here. I bagged the last of his things up today.
Not once has my mind drifted back to a good time, or even a bad time.

During the first week, i went through every emotion possible. But i believe that was all down to the stress and things that happened.

Just hoping that somebody, somewhere can tell me im not abnormal

OP posts:
wontletmesignin · 17/11/2013 20:17

I take my last statement back. It is not good to know we are missed.
I have received another message - and its not a good feeling.

Its frustrating the crap out of me. I am not paying £3 to read a text message. £6 now as there are two of them.

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