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ex OH referring to my DC as ted bundys

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wontletmesignin · 04/11/2013 22:44

what would this mean to you people...
my children are not out of the ordinary, in the slightest.
i have had behavioral problems with my eldest, of 10. but she has had a tough life, and i feel it has all be quite understandable.
if anything, she has handled things very well.

after everything i have been going through lately, re. my ex oh.
i have came to talk about a lot of things, that i wasn't really allowed to talk about.

one of those was him calling my oldest two children
'ted bundys'

now, if your children were on the normal developmental range for their age.
but your ex oh, was slighty disturbed.

how would you take this? what would you feel was meant by this?

OP posts:
dawdling · 06/11/2013 13:29

So. Back to your situation (finally) OP?

He has your youngest living with him ATM? Is that right?

MrsChanningTatum · 06/11/2013 13:36

Another long term staff nurse here threecee

I have been a staff nurse for 18 years and have NEVER heard that term before either, or anything else offensive.

dawdling · 06/11/2013 13:39

Oh ffs....

MrsChanningTatum · 06/11/2013 13:45

Sorry nomdemachin the thread was moving quickly I think, so I was still disturbed about the term being used in caring professions.

I won't mention it again.

Relax ok???

OP I think you need to have stern words with him firstly, because calling your children that is not appropriate at the very least.

toffeesponge · 06/11/2013 13:53

I tried to post on your previous thread but couldn't.

You need to get your son from nursery and tell them he is not to take him, if he is abusive to him.

dawdling · 06/11/2013 13:53

Moving quickly!? That whole detour was yesterday.

I'm concerned that the poor OP is going to lose patience withthe whole sideshow...

dawdling · 06/11/2013 13:54

Can you link to previous thread toffee ? I can't find it

toffeesponge · 06/11/2013 14:13

I don't remember the thread title, sorry so would be advanced searching the same as anyone.

dawdling · 06/11/2013 14:15

She's had so many names! Maybe she'll be back soon.

Hope so. This thread worries me.

wontletmesignin · 06/11/2013 14:19

Thank you all. I have something up my sleeve for tomorrow. I dont want to mention on here, but i think i may have a handle on things.

As for the other thread it was something along the lines of "am ibu thinking my oh should apologise to dd". If somebody could kindly link ot to this thread, i would be grateful.
I dont have a clue how to do it!

OP posts:
dawdling · 06/11/2013 14:24

Did just find your legal thread wont. Is that the situation you have in hand?

Do ring Womens Aid if you hit problems. They really are good.

Giyadas · 06/11/2013 14:26

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1900803-am-IBU-to-think-OH-should-apologise-to-dd

here you go, you just have to put round the link.

sorry have no helpful advice, your ex sounds like an arse

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