Got home tonight to find letter from solicitor saying that my DA was pronounced on 5th September - court took 4 weeks to write to them and them 3 weeks to write to me.
My feelings on reading it?
Whatever.
I started this journey almost 3 years ago (almost 2 since starting proceedings) and I am glad I can finally close this chapter and concentrate on the future.
I am a very different person now, in some ways better, some are still 'work in progress' but DS and I have made some great memories this year, none of which would have happened if I was still with xh.
So, onwards and upwards 
and thanks to all who have posted their wisdom on my threads.