My OH always anal

[SnoozyAQ]

I really do love my OH and we have a great sex life but we always end up having anal sex neither of us can seem to have what I would call normal loving sex. Does this mean we are just in tune with each other or we have problems.
We can start off having sex where I feel we are proving we love each other but it soon turns into animalistic sex.

[lurkinglorna]

personally it wouldn't be good enough for me, just doing it once a year. i'm normally a xmas and birthday girl.

[Fluffycloudland77]

Have you anthea'd your towels olivo? Because you can't be truly anal unless the towels are folded the Anthea way.

Tea towels included, E-Cloths optional.

[GillyBillyWilly]

[MoneyMug]

How do you all know the op isn't genuine?

Op if that's what you both like, there's nothing wrong with it.

[ScaryNutellaFucker]

Why are you asking us instead of talking to your partner?

[bundaberg]

well if you don't want to always have anal you need to tell him so.

i mean, i can't imagine how he just accidentally does it....

[CogitoErgoSometimes]

Sorry but the front bottom comment sent G&T up my nose. ROFL!!!

[Yseulte]

If you're for real OP and you don't want always to end up having anal then you need to tell your partner. Don't let yourself be coerced.

[HerdyHerdwick]

[GreenVelvet]

Well I have a theory about men who have a "thing" about anal sex. I don't think they like women very much.

There is also less emotional connection than vaginal sex, and the man is not connected with female energy in the same way.

On a purely practical level, anal sex is also more dangerous because unless you take precautions there is a chance of bacterial infection of the vagina.

I am not sure if that helps you with things OP, since you have consented to this but feel there is still something amiss. But perhaps it will give you some food for thought...

[olivo]

Hell, must check out Anthea, fluffy. They have to be folded exactly and hung straight though, no edges overlapping..... As for my fitted sheet folding......

[HerdyHerdwick]

Anthea, Brian and 'technics' all on one thread. Just one reason I enjoy MN so much

[Fluffycloudland77]

I've tried the fitted sheet folding, I haven't got the hang of it yet.

Dh put me an extra shelf in for towels, I was very happy.

[Sparrowlegs248]

Um. I think you need to provide more detail.

Or not....

[redundantandbitter]

Yep- must admit I thought this thread was going to involve tea towels and nicely arranged shoes.... I was SOOO wrong.

Anal sex. Do it if you like, if not don't. Not sure what you want us to say. Horses for courses... She says carefully skirting around the subject trying not to give too much away

[lurkinglorna]

seriously,

i think to re-instate the romance and loving feeling, you should take a holiday and/or go out to dinner.

there's a great "holiday village place" near Warminster where you can do a variety of fun activities.

also there is a great restaurant above harvey nicks on the south bank, get your dp to take you there

[brightnearly]

So do you both always get carried away into the "animalistic" despite best intentions of being gentle and loving, or does DH get carried away taking you with him?

[Whatnext074]

I think OP is playing on the article that was in the DM yesterday about MN and is attempting to get a reaction. Go away.

[Mintyy]

Actual laugh out loud at lurkinglorna.

[gamerchick]

I thought DM straight away as well. Apparently some of the curtain wipers in the comment section were going to pay us a visit.

[Yseulte]

I agree, GreenVelvet. There's also the issue of damage to the rectum and anus due to their fragility. Condoms and lubrication reduce the risk of tearing.

Unprotected anal sex also carries an elevated risk of passing on STIs because the anal sphincter is delicate, easily-torn tissue and a tear can provide an entry for

The number of heterosexual men who pressure their partners into anal sex without actually being aware of the risks to the penetrated partner concerns me.

[OxfordBags]

I thank you for 'curtain wipers' from the bottom of my blackened heart, gamerchick.

[Yseulte]

I don't think it's fair to take out the DM stirring on the OP who may be genuine.