i know its not THAT important in the grand scheme of things but....

[drpepper]

my long distance dp told me his ex was coming round to pick up their ds's we talk on msn nearly all day every day but he said he was switching it off ( around the time she was due ) he never turns it off ever !! would any of you be annoyed or am i making something out of nothing ?

Do you trust him? Because if you do then I think this is a non-problem really. He can't talk to anyone on MSN while he's handing over his kids, so why not switch it off?

If you don't trust him, or think that there are other problems in the relationship, then that's another question, but based on what you've said I can't see much to be annoyed about myself.

sounds wise to me. why would it annoy you?

i do trust him ! it doesnt bother me when he goes out with his mates and doesnt text me for hours or at all and i do trust that he is being faithful while we live so far apart its just something about the ex that niggles me i guess ! probably my own paranoia as i think she is better than me ie thinner prettier better with her kids ( she was a nanny ) etc and the fact she left him and broke his heart i know its a problem with me and not him but i just cant help it !